2 Warriors, 2 Princesses, and My Life as Their Mom

Monday, June 4, 2012

Our pearl of great worth

Julia officially turned 8 today.  She had grand ideas for her birthday and asked us to hide her gifts and let her find them.  She wanted clues, but we just did the "hot/cold" thing.  Our sporty girl asked for a basketball goal which requires more monetary output than is typical around here for a birthday.  However, we know that she will probably use it more than anyone, but it will definitely be used by just about everyone, so we found justification in purchasing it.



looks like Andy needs help getting that goal together

Before the basketball goal was on the radar, I did get her a pair of earrings.  Actually, I bought the two required pairs of earrings for Easter to get a free third pair at Claire's.  I held the third pair back for her birthday.  She has mentioned several times that she wants pearl earrings because the pearl is her birthstone, and she loves it.  Pearls surrounded her adoption (stayed on the Pearl River, and a shop owner who did her American name in calligraphy for us listed pearl as one of the meanings of her name), so when she first came home, we sometimes referred to her as our pearl of great price.  While she is not yet ready to take care of real pearl earrings, she was thrilled with the faux pearls from Claire's.  Within the last few weeks, she has just about mastered changing her earrings herself, so she does it more often now.

I would say this birthday was a happy one for her.  I am a little sad that my baby is already eight.

Sunday, June 3, 2012

Celebrating 8 years

Tomorrow, my baby turns 8. Eight!  We celebrated today by gathering family and friends at the pool for what Julia has dubbed the best birthday ever.

Julia received a bike from her grandpa, aunts, uncles, and cousins.  She is excited to have a big bike.

The girls did great together even though these three only had Julia in common.  None of them knew each other.
Morgan, Kayelin, Julia, and Courtney



I really tried for a beach themed cake, but alas it had to be Justin.

opening gifts

kissing Justin Bieber... I have no idea why she had to hold her nose, and she laughed so hard that I don't think she ever pulled it off

Julia invited three boys, but Samuel was the only one who was able to make it.  I think he still had a good time with the girls.
Annika, Morgan, Samuel, Julia, Kayelin, and Courtney



Happy Birthday, Julia!

Saturday, June 2, 2012

Sobering



I am guilty of wanting for myself and for my children while forgetting that others suffer so much.  I think the thing that bothers me the most is the trafficking.  It is all horrible...the abandonment, the murders, but the trafficking pierces me.

Friday, June 1, 2012

May Recap

We worked our way to the final month of school and had to push hard to finish strong when we were tired.  This month held amazing highs along with some painful lows.

We welcomed new life, and said goodbye to a friend gone much too young. We had great fellowship, and we welcomed summer (Can I get a big YAY!)

A plumbing problem that has plagued us for 5 years was finally resolved.  After having a friend and two plumbers try and fix this particular issue with no success, we became convinced that it would involve replacing the sewer pipe and thus cost us our deck and a few grand to fix.  However, a very good plumber came and fixed it for $133.  He also looked at a leaking shower and determined that we could work to find the source of that leak before cutting out the ceiling to see the pipes.  We are so grateful for this. Though eventually we will have to cut out the ceiling to fix the other bathroom, and it has been patched so much from shower leaks that it needs to be replaced.  Now we have to prioritize whether to fix a bathroom in bad need of repair or replace the flooring in the living room.  Our living room is carpeted, and despite the no food rule, we are just too hard on carpet in a high traffic area, so we want to replace this worn carpet with hardwood. Oh the joys of home ownership.  We always have a list of things that must be done followed by the things we want to do (thinking kitchen remodel here- many years into the future unless a sweepstakes throws some big money our way).

The Joy Dare continued:
191. a smallish electric bill
194. a reminder that people are kind when a store clerk left her post to chase us out of the store and give us our shampoo
195. when I hug a grieving friend, when the tuition assistance doesn't come through, when the shower leaks, when the out-take pipe leaks, I remember this is all temporary
196. everything-but-the kitchen sink sundaes to celebrate our day off school
201. my God doesn't fit in a box
204.  Zach was hired for his first job May 6, 2012! (He still awaits his first check which has me concerned).
206. fellowship with C-group families, great hosts
215. a praying husband
221. Savannah's narrative describing how she is glad to have Zach.
226. Adoption Assistance picnic - 45 countries represented, good times - pictures below





231. a great end to a great 8th grade year with a crossover celebration and fabulous party!
233. Ira!
236. good times with old friends celebrating a house-warming
239. first day at the pool


As we concluded the month we had an annual end-of-school celebration/reunion for Savannah's elementary art club at her teacher's home yesterday.  It was a bittersweet time as we learned two teachers whom we love will not be returning in the fall.  Julia still attends that campus, so we are disappointed that she won't have them there.

I missed my mom more than usual this month.  More times than I can recall, I wanted to pick up the phone and call her about various events in our lives.  Jonathan shared with me that they are trying to teach Regan her new brother's name.  When they work on this, they tell her his name is Ira, and Regan pokes his eyes and says, "eyes."  It occurred to me that I would have heard that story from Mom if she were still here.

Today marks Children's Day in China.  While we don't celebrate that here, we have much to celebrate in the month of June as Julia's birthday is in just a few days, and we celebrate gotcha days for both Wyatt and Julia this month.  

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Ira


I have only seen his eyes open in pictures.

Ira! Ira! Ira!  a champion already
Does he have Jonathan's temper too?  We already know that Regan does.


I just had to share the hospital pictures.  I mean, can you get enough baby pictures?

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Total Sweetness

On Memorial Day part of our agenda included running some errands.  The girls and I searched for summer clothes while the boys and Andy hit the grocery store.  Upon meeting again, Wyatt handed me a tiny bag of Lindor truffles which he had purchased with his own money.  "Wyatt, " I said, "you didn't have to do this."  Wyatt's response, "I know. I just love you so much."

...and my heart melted.

Saturday, May 26, 2012

First Day at the Pool!

Our pool opened today, so we made our way there tonight.  We have never gone on opening day nor opening weekend for that matter.  It was a busy day.  Julia returned late this afternoon from a sleepover.  Savannah babysat for six hours - her first paid babysitting job, and Zach had a seven hour shift at work (he did not make it to the pool).

I got my Ira fix early this afternoon :)   It has been a nice day.

The little people brought their newly raised allowance for pool treats.

reading Divergent by Veronica Roth
If you liked The Hunger Games, I recommend this one.